Need knowledge

I am so excited to move, but overwhelmed on what to start with. I know we are selling all of our big furniture. As well as have to sort through all our stuff and try to toss some stuff. Believe me this isn't easy when your husband is a pack rat and hates to get ride of stuff! Men what are they gonna do. Just playing! I'm afraid that we are not gonna get things done right.
But the good thing is that we have been looking a lot of searching for apartments, jobs, and a vehicle which are all things we have to get or start. This is a risk but, were gonna take it. So pray for us. And suggestions are welcome!