Can you define love?

This is my Babe!! He's so handsome..

Is there any thing better then having someone you love? As Robbie and I are going through the process of finding jobs I see us growing closer together. We don't argue over the stupid stuff as much, and we really get along well. I really enjoy being around him. He's so funny and he makes you comfortable. I never feel out of place. As he says I belong where ever he is. 
 Can you define love? In my head It's when you can look at them and can not see your life without them. Even through the good times and the bad. When you can work out your problems with talking. Or imagine fighting to spend more time together.
Robbie and I are together 24/7 for the last 7 months when I lost my job. Well sense then we spend alot of time together. It saved us we wanted and need more time together. We comunicate better. We fight less even though we are broke. I love him with or without. It's my experience, what's your?

Mama gave the cat a black eye.

So right now my parents have so kind to care for my dog lil'mama while we are trying to get jobs and a place in NC. From what I hear mama has been great with listening, going outside, walking the whole nine yard. Have to admit I did spoil my fur baby. But for some reason she is fasinated with the cat. One the cat can be a bit mean, but mama wants to play with her.
Well Lil'mama decided the cat was gonna play if she wanted or not! She had her corners and was trying to play. Licking and whatever. So the cats eye starts to swell up so my mom takes the cat to the vet. The cat has a black eye. I feel so bad that my Mama did that. My moms like well crap happens. Thank heaven my parents are not mad. And are still caring for her. Thanks mom. I still kinda find it funny. Lmbo!!

Need knowledge

I am so excited to move, but overwhelmed on what to start with. I know we are selling all of our big furniture. As well as have to sort through all our stuff and try to toss some stuff. Believe me this isn't easy when your husband is a pack rat and hates to get ride of stuff! Men what are they gonna do. Just playing! I'm afraid that we are not gonna get things done right.
But the good thing is that we have been looking a lot of searching for apartments, jobs, and a vehicle which are all things we have to get or start. This is a risk but, were gonna take it. So pray for us. And suggestions are welcome!

Faith in marriage

Ok, today we had my brother in laws over and we were just sitting around talking. First it started off with cars, then sports, and some how we started talking about God, and the bible and the role of man and woman! Excited, I became cause I always find it interesting what young men these days expect out of women. I decovered that its simple and easy. They want a women like there mother! As well as someone that can listen well and take control at the right moments. Strong, but loving. I was just listening and taking it in, and I have to admit that every women is capible of proforming these simple request. Have to say I learned more in those 30 minutes then I could in a life time of dating. Thank heaven I don't have to date again! I honestly learn something new everyday its a life long adventure with the one you love!

Lil'mama is coming to North Carolina

Om gosh, I was speaking to Robbie's cousin and happen to bring up that we wanna bring mama and she said we can bring her! We are so excited because our Lil'mama is our daughter and He wasn't having it. So I had to ask and so far everything we have been praying for has been happening. I've had my doubts, but everyone and everything has been falling into place. I can't help to be excited about this move!

This is Robbie & me!

Moving on up!

Robbie and I are going to be leaving NY to NC. I am so excited to make this move, a new start! Well I've been searching for months for a new job here in NYC since being laid off! And its the hardest thing I've ever done. For some reason they thought to start with the city employees so I was cut. So we were talking to his cuz and they said try to find work in NC, so we did and I started to get offers! I was like Om gosh, this is great! so after talking about it, and planning we are going to make the jump and go for it! So I'm selling all my furniture, and anything that don't fit in a van. Road trip, yay! 10 hours of driving for us fun. So looking forward to this!

To Jennie

There are so many things in life that brings you to a point that you start to think about your future and thats exactly what I'm doing. Recently Robbie and I decided to make some life changes. We are currently living in NY and are going to relocate to the beautiful state of North Carolina. For us this is a big step!Stepping out of our element and into another. I don't know if were crazy, but if loving and caring and building a family is crazy then I'm down for it! So as the time goes by we just pray that life gets better and better!